The fact that we need a Pride month is a matter of shame for us all.
Did you know that around 5% of population across that world has a problem with gender identity. You say, “Well, I’ve never seen anyone…” That’s because they are foresaken by their families upon birth, killed, left in orphanages, handed over to the LGBTQ+ societies in your area or their families hide their ‘defect’…
The fact that we need a Pride month is a matter of shame for us all
because it means we are still not treating people right;
That we need a whole month every year to remind ourselves that people who are different deserve an equal footing;
That we still forget that gender is not black and white but hues of rainbow;
That people are commiting suicide every year because they are pushed to marry the ‘wrong’ gender to prove they are ‘normal’ and those who resort to violence to prove they are ‘man enough’;
That there are sports for women and sports for men, and people who are allowed to enter none;
That there are people who laugh at those who wear their colours with pride;
That every year, too many children are forced to drop out of school because they can’t deal with the physical, mental and emotional abuse by their classmates and teachers alike;
That we are still teaching our sons that boys don’t cry and daughters that girls don’t talk back;
That we are raising another generation that is just as unforgiving to those who don’t fit in the unyeilding boxes of gender roles…
The fact that we need a Pride month is a matter of shame for us all…
Well said, Shaily. Though I suspect Europe is generally more tolerant of different sexualities than India. (I don’t know for sure of course.)
Best wishes, Pete.
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Pete, In India, children who don’t have correct physical gender markers at birth are given away to the local Kinnar (LGBT) society. Most are marked as stillborn in hospital records. Those who have physical marker but do not conform to gender identity of their sex are forced into submission by their parents…thinking a correct marriage can change their ‘defects’. Those who come out are
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Those who come out are a laughing stock, unable to get jobs, often face violence at the hands of classmates, colleagues and Police. My company is one of the few that openly embraces the third sex and promotes equality.
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powerfully expressed , Shaily: Acceptance is the key !
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Thank you, John. I hope the message spread far and wide. I have friends who will appreciate the acceptance…
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